What is Playtime?

Learn to explore and enjoy your own body. Find ways to indulge your desires and fantasies. Even discover new techniques and sex positions.

You’ll find all this and more in your tailored four-week programme – designed by our sex expert, Emily Dubberley.

Meet Emily

MEET THE EXPERT

Playtime is endorsed by sex writer, Emily Dubberley.

With a wealth of experience researching and writing about sex, love and relationships, her intimate knowledge has helped tailor this guide to satisfy your individual desires.

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Take control.. both of you

Taking control isn’t just a physical thing. It’s about playing by your rules and on your terms. And sex is no different. Finding the right balance means you’ll both get a kick out of sex, enjoy it more. And want it more.

So mix it up this week. Grab the reins and show your partner who’s boss. Then step off the gas and enjoy being taken for a ride.

    Monday
    Emily's Tip:

    Swap a list of 5 things you’d like to do more of in sex.

    Tuesday
    Emily's Tip:

    Pick an unusual time of day to have sex: the choice should be made by the less dominant partner.

    Wednesday

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    Emily's Tip:

    The woman should pick three erotic rules for the day.

    Thursday
    Emily's Tip:

    The man should pick three erotic rules for the day.

    Friday

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    Emily's Tip:

    Pick an outfit for your lover to wear in the bedroom that makes them look sexy.

    Monday
    Emily's Tip:

    Write down three sex acts / positions you’ve never tried in the bedroom that you want to try with your partner.

    Tuesday
    Emily's Tip:

    Pick a new place to have sex: the choice should be made by the less dominant partner.

    Wednesday

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    Emily's Tip:

    The woman should initiate sex.

    Thursday

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    Emily's Tip:

    The man should initiate sex

    Friday
    Emily's Tip:

    Go online together and each choose a fantasy outfit you’d like to see your lover wearing.

    Monday
    Emily's Tip:

    Tell your lover a fantasy you’ve never told them before that you’d like to live out.

    Tuesday
    Emily's Tip:

    Bring something new along to sex – toy, outfit, fetish item: the choice should be made by the less dominant partner.

    Wednesday

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    Emily's Tip:

    The woman should initiate a new sex act or position you haven’t tried before.

    Thursday

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    Emily's Tip:

    The man should initiate a new sex act or position you haven’t tried before.

    Friday
    Emily's Tip:

    Dress each other up for an evening out – however you most want to see your lover.

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